Monday, June 23, 2014
Did you appear in Time Magazine?
Consider for a moment who most impacted you in this past
year: was it a friend? A colleague? Somebody you know? Or somebody you admire?
Was the person even alive, or was he or she a writer whose ideas you came in
contact with this past while? Was it somebody who set an example, who inspired
you? If that person is still alive, consider dropping them a note in order to
thank them.
Secondly consider where you have made an impact this past
year: you might not have made the cover of Time Magazine, but surely you have
impacted somebody. How did you do it? Was it a conscious effort, or did you
only notice afterward that something shifted because of what you said, did or
decided not to do? Who are the people, situations, places you want to
influence? In 2004 Joseph Nye coined the term “soft power” for influence by
countries which did not primarily involve economic or military prowess, but
such things as cultural leadership, achievements in sports or architectural inventiveness.
But you could apply the term as well to individuals: some people (why do women
come to mind so readily?) seem to have influence and sway way out of proportion
with their position or economic means. Something less tangible, but no less
real allows them to have impact in their families, work places or
communities. So before you bemoan that
you are no John Kerry nor Kelly Washington, consider the soft power that you
have, and use it wisely. You might make it onto some of your friends’ list of
“100 most influential people”…